
It is a kind of love, is it not?
How the cup holds the tea,
How the chair stands sturdy and foursquare,
How the floor receives the bottoms of shoes
Or toes. How soles of feet know
Where they’re supposed to be.
I’ve been thinking about the patience
Of ordinary things, how clothes
Wait respectfully in closets
And soap dries quietly in the dish,
And towels drink the wet
From the skin of the back.
And the lovely repetition of stairs.
And what is more generous than a window?
This poem is from The Patience of Ordinary Things (Amherst Writers & Artists Press, 2003) and is compiled in Another River: New and Selected Poems (Amherst Writers & Artists Press, 2005).
Pat Schneider (1934–2020) was a poet, playwright, librettist, and leader of writing workshops who in 1981 founded the nonprofit organization Amherst Writers & Artists to help people discover their deepest stories through writing. The AWA grew out of a writing method Schneider developed, described in her book Writing Alone and with Others (Oxford University Press, 2003), which is used by an international network of workshop leaders. This is one of over a dozen books she’s published, which include six collections of poetry, a spiritual autobiography, and How the Light Gets In: Writing as a Spiritual Practice (Oxford University Press, 2013). She and her husband, Peter, a Methodist minister, devoted many years to community-based social justice ministry, fueled in part by Schneider’s having grown up in an impoverished single-parent home (and later orphanage). She had four children.